Editor’s Note:  In June, 1990, during Sofia Lacombe’s visit to our home in Northbrook, she got to meet my wife Cathy Bowe’s brother, Harold Vanselow, and his daughters Willa and Phoebe and son Joe.  As they piled into their car to head back on their long drive home to Cornucopia, Wisconsin, everyone said their goodbyes on our driveway as my sons Andy and Pat looked on and our neighbor Laurel Dusek played with her hula hoop.